Community Guidelines

Kandhaa works because its community takes care of each other. These guidelines aren't rules imposed from above — they're the shared values that make genuine connection and healing possible.

Lead with empathy

You don't need to have answers. Simply listening with patience and care is the most valuable thing you can offer.

Protect anonymity

Never try to identify other users. Never share your own or others' contact details. Anonymity is what makes vulnerability possible here.

No romantic intentions

Kandhaa is for healing, not dating. Any romantic or sexual messages will result in immediate removal.

Be patient

People here are hurting. Respond with gentleness. Never dismiss, minimise, or offer unsolicited advice.

Know your limits

You're not a therapist. If someone describes thoughts of self-harm, encourage them to contact a professional.

Report, don't retaliate

If something feels wrong, use the report button. Do not engage with harmful messages — just report and we'll handle it.

• iCall — 9152987821 (Mon–Sat, 8am–10pm)
• Vandrevala Foundation — 1860-2662-345 (24/7)
• NIMHANS — 080-46110007
• Snehi — 044-24640050

Minor violations result in a warning. Repeated or serious violations result in permanent account removal. We take the safety of our community seriously and act swiftly on reports.